Cats, just like you and me, need love and affection to live happy lives. Kibble in the bowl, litter in the box and a toy dropped on the floor of the living room just isn’t enough to create a thriving environment. Leave affection out of the picture and you’ll soon have a confused, anxious cat on your hands with a new top priority: to get you to notice them.
Attention-seeking behavior in cats
A cat who is trying to get your attention will resort to whatever works, no matter how repetitive it seems to you. Typical behaviors include:
- Meowing incessantly
- Walking in between your legs
- Knocking things off tables
- Stealing objects
- Biting or pawing
- Jumping up to be at your level (say, on countertops)
If these behaviors arise suddenly, reach out to your veterinarian and schedule an appointment. They will help you rule out any medical causes that might be inspiring attention-seeking behavior. If you were in pain, wouldn’t you want someone to notice?
If these behaviors develop over time or are a part of your cat’s personality from first meeting, consider that they may simply need more from you – more love, more attention, more dialogue, more affection. Remember: cats have emotional lives too!
Correcting attention-seeking behavior
Many cat parents unintentionally reinforce the behavior they’re trying to snuff out. Say, for example, your cat meows excessively and scratches the furniture in the middle of the night to get your attention. Reprimand, talk back or walk over and remove the stimulus and you are indeed providing attention – just what the cat wanted. It’s just the wrong kind…
Rather than responding with discipline, consider these alternate strategies. They are certain to be much more successful! Try:
- Ignoring the behavior that bothers you
- Providing other outlets for your pet’s boundless energy
- Giving positive attention when your cat is behaving appropriately
- Choosing positive reinforcement over negative reinforcement whenever possible
Sound doable? You’ll be amazed at just how quickly these techniques correct bad behavior. Just remember: correcting attention-seeking behavior is just the beginning. It is also important that you address the root causes of the issue.
Is your cat lonely? Do you work out of the house day after day, only to come home and ignore them? Might they be happier with another pet to keep them company? Examine how your lifestyle might be affecting your kitty, then go from there. You’ll both be so much happier if you do!